Guess what? I don’t care that my house isn’t perfect because I love collecting old stuff. Things like the antique rolling pin and vintage cook ware that hangs on my wall just to delight my eyes – I love hunting for unique treasures! But ultimately I know my stuff is just ‘stuff.’ The people that gather in my kitchen and around my dining room table, they are the true treasures in life.
I don’t care that my house is not put together or that my plates and silverware don’t match. What I do care about are the people in my life and the laughter and silliness they bring into my house. I care about the fact that two of my daughters are going away to college in the fall and I’m not just losing them, I’m losing their friends, the 20 or so people in our extended family that I’m used to seeing on a regular basis because they’re all fleeing the nest too. I plan on making the most of this last summer my girls live at home.
I hope you spend more energy focusing on the people in your life versus worrying about everything being in perfect order. Focus on the people, not the stuff. Worry less about trying to impress people and spend more time getting to know them. Something to think about.
A lot of people spend too much time in the past because they can’t let go. They can’t forgive themselves or they can’t forgive others. When you finally realize you have to forgive, you find out that it is the key that unlocks the prison doors and you let yourself free of that bitterness. Did you read that right? You are the one who is freed of misery and pain when you finally forgive and let yourself move on and live for today.
Some people don’t worry about the past as much as they worry about what’s to come. Every day they dwell on the future. Those people are going to overlook the good things that are happening right now. You see, that’s why it’s called the ‘present,’ because it is a gift. Today is a gift, be grateful in it! Make plans for the future but don’t fret about it so much that you forget what’s important today.
Keep your head in today. Stop looking back or stop looking ahead with worry. You can’t control it. It’s in the palm of God’s hands, leave it there. And now that you’ve soaked in my little pep talk, I want you to write to me and tell me what you are grateful for today. Sometimes just taking the time to write down a gratitude list can be therapy for a troubled heart. Just a thought.
Those affected by the massive tornadoes in Oklahoma still need our prayers and support. By supporting the organizations on the ground who are handing out important resources -- food, shelter, clothing, counseling -- you are directly helping those people in need. People who had their whole lives shattered in a matter of minutes. People who went to work and school like any other day and came home to nothing, or to learn their loved ones were lost.
Please donate however you can, every little bit helps. Get together with church members and sports clubs and school groups to host a bake sale or donation drive. Your support and love means so much in times of tragedy. If you need some guidance, I've listed some great organizations that do God's good work in these difficult times:
Standing on my porch this morning, watching the white puffy clouds race across the blue sky, breathing in the fresh scent of spring's promise…I wanted IT. It was like waking up from a long, deep sleep to see sunshine and bright blue skies and hear the music of nature, and wanting so badly to do something!
Watching pink cherry tree petals flutter in the wind like a warm, fragrant shower of color reminds me that the fruit from those trees will be sweet and ripe, fresh for the picking and canning. I already have plans for making lots of jams and jellies to restock my depleted pantry.
The spring breeze makes me feel wild and young again. I believe in spring's promise of hope and renewal and will embrace that feeling, letting go of any lingering negativity in order to appreciate what is ahead. Now is a good time to let any anger, frustration, and discontent slip away…
Find out what you want and go for it! Don't sit around thinking and fussing. Do something your heart aches to do. Take a deep breath. Breathe in the opportunity. Get inspired. Sail on the fresh, promise-filled wind and go a little wild...let the fever take hold and whisk you off to better days ahead.
I have been listening to you every day for at least a year now. I lost my husband on March 9th. We were together for 32 years, married for 30 years April 23rd. Some night could you play "On The Road Again"? It was our song and today is his birthday.
Please pray for us and for our first grandchild who is heading this way in September. Joe knew before he passed away which makes a good memory.
Your photo is not how I imagined you. It is better than I imagined. You provide much pleasure to all. Thank you.
Have a great day.
I am so so sorry for your loss. One of my closest friends, Kim, lost her precious husband after 30 years of marriage. He passed away a week after their anniversary. She misses him so much that I ache for her; he loved her more than life. I pray that like Kim, the love and the memories you shared will see you through.
I am going to play a song for you in honor of your husband that was written in honor of my son Sammy who passed on March 11th last year. The song is "I Know You Lived" by Angie Broberg and you can find it on iTunes. If you buy it, the proceeds go directly to support my charity, Point Hope.
May the Lord comfort you and heal your broken heart.
God bless you.
Do you need a spring awakening? Maybe you just need to spring into action and do something that makes you feel good. Let me give you a few ideas…
Spring clean. In your car, your desk, your shed or your bedroom, pick a place that could use a little (ahem!) attention this season and make it a more desirable place to be.
Plant some seeds. In the ground, in a container or in your windowsill, put your green thumb to work and grow something this year!
Plan a spring brunch. If you’re not already doing this for Easter, get some friends or family together and put together a potluck picnic, a barbecue or a brunch and come to remember why you love these milder months.
Take a spring break. The kids get one, why not you? Just for a day. Devote a day to unwind and relax. Take some time to refuel yourself by doing an activity you enjoy.
Bring flowers. To your office, to your friend, to your kitchen table, bring some pretty spring flowers to perk up the environment you’re in and celebrate spring.
Switch up your workout. It doesn’t have to be the same thing every day and it doesn’t have to be in a gym. Walk along the beach or lake, take a hike with your kids, stretch outside, try a group yoga class, wash the car, or get to work in the garden. Digging and planting will definitely cost you a few calories.
Do you know someone getting married, having a baby, celebrating an anniversary, or graduating? Now is the time to recognize someone special so write a special dedication for them, pick a song if you’d like, and send it to me. Email me at D@Delilah.com.